Bra Attack!

Towards the end of my first year in college, I had a date lined up with this really hot guy. I am still not sure how I managed to get him to ask me out, but I was just so happy to be going out with this guy that I was so totally into. This guy was smart, athletic and very good looking and genuinely a nice person. He had dated the most popular girls on campus, so of course I felt the usual  pressure of a first time date, but also felt that I would have to compete with these other girls. I was a total wreck but at the same time very anxious.

I went out and did some shopping for a new outfit, with daddy's credit card of course, it was nothing too fancy as we were only going to the movies and then out to dinner and a little dancing, it was going to be a very casual date but still I wanted to look my best. I bought a pretty summery skirt and a nice white blouse. The  evening of my our date I showered, put on my best lingerie and my new outfit. I paid special attention to doing my hair, nails, and makeup.

My anticipation was at its highest level possible. In my mind I had built this up to be the most important day of my life.

When he showed up to get me I was so excited, he was right on time and the date started off  as wonderful as I hoped it would. The movie was great, the dinner was very good as well. We decided to go dancing. Then disaster struck. As we started to shake our booties on the dance floor, to my horror, the elastic waistband of my underwear broke. The faster I danced the faster they slid down. Eventually they fell to my ankles. It was a good thing the dance floor was packed with people shaking and hopping and no one noticed. I did the only thing I could  think of doing in that situation, I just kicked them away and kept right on dancing. It was kind of embarrassing for me to watch my undies get kicked around the dance floor for the rest of the evening.

Other than that one issue, our time together dancing was just wonderful. He held me in such a comfortable way, and we fit like two matching pieces in a jigsaw puzzle. We talked about crazy stunts we had pulled as kids and more serious topics between numbers and sets. He was as fun to me as I seemed to be to him.

When it came time to leave, disaster seemed to follow. We pulled up in front of my apartment and he leaned over to kiss me goodnight, it was a great kiss but not one that told me he expected something more. It was very sweet and sensual it was the kind of kiss that lingered. All of a sudden he screeched “OW!” That’s not really what I wanted to hear while we were sharing our first kiss. He then pulled away and I could see a little blood tricking down his neck, as I was about to hyperventilate I realized what had happened. It seems the wire from my bra had broken free protruding through my blouse and when he leaned towards me to kiss me it stabbed him in the neck, at that point if I could have crawled into the glove compartment I would have. But as not to show my embarrassment I took a Kleenex out of my pocket and began to clean the wound, saying “I'm so sorry, how embarrassing please forgive me”. However he was just so understanding about the whole thing, and we even dated for a while, but I always felt that with every kiss after that he was wondering if he would be attacked again by my attack bra.




So if you are in college like I was but are having problems finding someone to date, then you should try this link:
College Dating

Dates For Open-Minded Ladies

Once in a while, the universe will smile on a single man and hook him up with an open-minded and adventurous woman in his dating life. This is a woman who is not likely to be singing in the church choir on Sundays if you get my drift.  If you hook up with a lady of this nature, you have to go to crazy places on a regular basis. Here are some suggestions if you’re ever lucky enough to get one of these women to go out with you. Have fun!

Nudie Bar

If your women has any sorts of bi-sexual tendencies, she will likely jump at the chance to go to a strip bar. I mean, she will likely enjoy the action as much as you! She might even buy you a lap dance, and vise-versa! There are some memories to last a lifetime! If you notice that you are getting more attention than usual from the strippers when you are with your girl it is not your imagination. Many strippers dig undressing for other women. Some of them are also bisexual and into threesomes. See if your honey would like to be that kinky. 

A Trip To Your Local Sex Shop

If you’re at the point in your dating relationship with the kinky lady, a great date idea is the adult shop. Go to a bar before the adult shop, and have a drink or two.This will loosen both of you up even more, and by the time you get to the store, you’ll have few inhibitions left. Then you can walk through the aisles and find out what makes her blush. If you see something sexy, tell her you would like to buy it for her. Ask her if there is anything that she wants to get for you? If you are not pushy, you will find that you can easily while away a couple of enjoyable hours. At the end, you might be surprised with what she wants to buy. Just go with it. Be aware that quality sex toys and outfits can put a serious dent in the pocket book. But if there’s anything that is worth the dough, it’s a sex toy!

Role Playing

Sex shop costumes are great for role playing sex. There are lots of cute outfits that are just begging you to slowly take off of her! Most women love it when a man slowly undresses her, and having her reciprocate with you is really cool She can play “Nurse Naughty”, “Sex Teacher”, “Marion the Librarian”, almost anything.

The best way to pick the role to play is to write them all down on separate pieces of paper, and then pick them out of a hat or something.


S&M Parlor

If she is really edgy, you might want to try some BDSM. Best to do this in a BDSM parlor though because they have most of what you need.  Most BDSM is just a show, and not usually painful, so do not be turned off by it.  Do not be afraid to go just because you have never done it before. Most BDSM parlors will help newbies so that they will become regular clientele.



Enough ideas. I will stop now before I bore you. In the off season, most Halloween shops have  sexy costumes to rent as well, so you do not have to have a huge closet full of clothes You may want to even try a murder mystery night out. The right mystery might have you participating in interesting ways. The key is to make it fun, interesting, and above all KINKY!

For more ideas try this link:

Fun Dating Advice for Men

Sexual Relationships In College

Now don't get me wrong, I'm not off my rocker or anything like that, but please stop telling me to enjoy being single because “one day” I might find myself with a husband, children and a condo with huge monthly fees, being single is not what I want to be for the rest of my life. I have been single for 22 years, single is my closest companion,  I have had more than my fair share of relationship problems, I want to have a relationship with someone other than my sex toys, college dating can by trying at best. Why does it seem like all my friends are in a committed relationship but me, Losing in love has become a habit that is getting harder and harder to break.

I once asked a friend (no not my pet monkey), but rather a college friend how they do it, I confided in her that when I go to parties, other women seem to have no problem connecting with guys, but every time I go after one that I'm attracted to, someone else comes along and grabs him, what should I do. Her answer was to question me if I would just let someone jump in front of me in line at the grocery store. I replied I would grab them and shove them back in line to wait their turn. She said excellent, the next time some girl tries to rob you of your man play thing just push her aside, walk up to the man buffet and grab your piece. Maybe I should have asked my gold fish.

College guys mystify me, I'm a smart attractive young woman but they act like I have two heads. The ones I do go out with are only interested in one thing, for many college guys you have to shell out or get out, so I'd rather get out.

But its not just females that have problems, there are college dudes who do not seem to play well with college babes. It seems if you won't get in the sack with them they think you are a pansy, its too bad because I have a lot to offer, other then sex. The male students tell me that a lot of the college girls want them have sex with them off the get go and if they  want to wait a bit she tells other people that they have no sex drive. Most of these poor unfortunates are great guys that have respect for women and don't just think of them as an easy lay, why can't these trollops see that these men will not accept this sort of disrespect.

There may be, however, a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, several of the guys and girls have decided to sign up to some of the better online college dating sites. There have been some real success stories floating around about how guys and girls met their soul mates on these sites. People on these sites could care less how much money you have and they are into more activities than just sex, sex, sex, they're really nice people, and college students like us. They have a dream of making something of themselves. They are interested in finding that certain person and one day settling down. My best friend met his future wife on an online college dating site, I was surprised because it happened so quickly, that they were an item before I knew he was going to join an online dating site.

My friends have been so successful that I have decided to try it for myself.  My friends told me about this site they found that lists and ranks a bunch of online dating sites, and they have an entire page on just college dating sites. They said that this is where they started to look for college dating sites to join, and they have nothing but good things to say about the way the site recommends and rates the various college dating sites. Who knows maybe I'll finally find someone who is caring and decent. If you are in college or looking to date someone  who is in college why don't you follow this link:

Dating in College